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Adjusting to a one-butt Kitchen

  • Writer: kiehart
    kiehart
  • May 2, 2025
  • 2 min read

Updated: May 26, 2025

So we did it. We made it through the downsizing experience. We somehow kept our sanity and now look forward to summer when we'll celebrate another anniversary. The last six weeks weren't easy, though. The decisions regarding what to keep and what to re-home might haunt us for a few months. But, so far, a month into apartment living, we haven't 'needed' anything that we've given away. That's a good sign. And right now, the only item we've been searching for and wondering about is the round, glass pyrex pie plate. I still need to shop for the ingredients for spinach quiche, so there's time. I am 99% sure the pie plate made the move.


Which brings me to our kitchen. A lot less cabinet space than the house we vacated, but it's certainly doable. It's all about sticking to Mom's mantra "There's a place for everything, so keep everything in its place." With limited room, there's no letting dishes pile in the sink or sit on the counter. Finish one project THEN move onto the next task (ie. prepare Suzy's meal, feed her, while she eats, clean up, and then begin to prepare supper). Not enough room to multi-task and certainly too crowded for both of us to be in the same area at the same time. Every once in a while we find ourselves slow dancing around each other, balancing plates or glassware. And that's fun, too.


Suzy is adjusting nicely. She's keeping a good routine which helps us with appointments and fun activities. She hasn't been in the mood to play with her toys, so we bought a new squeaking duck and after some serious squeaking, Suzy fell asleep with the duck under her chin. I think she senses the stress of moving and adjusting to new routines like using an elevator and stairs. She's a trooper.


Time to get ready for this year's book events. Stop by for a visit. www.judykiehart.com/events Later this month I'll be chatting with Sammy Downing at Orca Books (open to the public) about her new release When Darcy Met Lizzy -- described as a 'queer Pride and Prejudice remix.' Fans of Jane Austin and the Bridgerton series will find the book an enjoyable read, as I did.


My second book, Mixed Shorts, will be launched on June 1st. I'm excited about this book and hope to hear from you once you've read it. Currently, it'll be available through Amazon and my website. Yes, I am aware that many are boycotting Amazon, but for Indie Authors, Amazon is the best -- and sometimes the only -- way to promote our books, so please reconsider this when you shop for Mixed Shorts!


A final thought: No matter how spacious your kitchen, take a moment to slow dance with your partner while preparing a meal—because cooking together is more than just food; it's connection.
















 
 
 

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September isn't just a Month--it's a Mindset

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Photo: Monarch Pass, Colorado, September

Let me begin with a quote that captures the quiet magic of this month: “September tries its best to have us forget summer.” – Bernard Williams.

 

There’s something bittersweet about September. It’s not loud with excitement and energy like July or with sparkle and shine like December. It whispers. It reminds us that change is approaching—and change can inspire personal reflection.

 

In the Northern Hemisphere, September marks the end of summer and the beginning of autumn. The days grow shorter, the air turns crisp, and trees begin their slow, spectacular transformation. Leaves shift from green to gold, amber, and crimson—nature’s final fireworks before winter’s hush.

 

September teaches us that slowing down doesn’t mean stopping—it means preparing. Families switch into school mode. Farmers begin their harvest. Animals start their migration or gather food for the colder months.

 

September is a quieter month. The rush of summer fades, and the frenzy of the holidays hasn’t yet begun. There’s time to think. To breathe.

 

I’ve always found September to be a time of clarity--my 'chill' month. It’s when I take stock of my goals, reconnect with my values, and prepare for the final stretch of the year. For me, it’s about recalibration.

 

So what is September, really? It’s a month of balance, of beauty, of quiet transformation. Observe the changes that surround you each day. Be reminded that change doesn’t have to be loud to be powerful.

 

As we move through this month, I invite you to let go of what no longer serves you. And prepare, with purpose, for what’s to come.

 

 

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