...the Start of Summer

Memorial Day Weekend signals the unofficial start of summer. Fill the propane tank, hose off the patio, fluff the lounge chair cushions because the weeks to come are filled with plans for backyard gatherings, picnics in parks, beach days, lake kayaking, and oh so much more!

Eileen and I enjoyed our first mini-vacation of the season a few weekends ago, and for me, the first celebration following Memorial Day Weekend is PRIDE month.

I came out when I was an older lesbian. Up until that time, I didn’t understand the significance of PRIDE. I had spent so many years HIDING, that the whole idea of being authentic was foreign. The thought of being OUT was terrifying.

As I tiptoed out of the closet, I gained a new appreciation for the many individuals who have played pivotal roles in advancing LGBTQ+ rights and shaping history through activism, advocacy, and cultural influence.

I’m not sure if Northeastern PA, my hometown area, or your hometown celebrates PRIDE, but in the Pacific Northwest, throughout the state of Washington, all month long, communities celebrate PRIDE with pride.

Olympia is recognized as one of the most welcoming cities in Washington, with a lively LGBTQ+ community and venues. Compared with larger cities, like Seattle and Tacoma, Olympia is small scale, but our Capital City's PRIDE events are jam-packed. This year, Olympia's PRIDE takes place on Saturday, June 28 and Sunday, June 29. On Saturday, the waterfront boardwalk and parks will feature over 200 vendor booths, several drag performances, lots of music, and good family fun. The following day is the PRIDE parade -- a dazzling, joyful mix of people, each adding energy to the celebration of love, identity, and activism.

You’ll see:

·         Drag performers – Gliding through the crowd in larger-than-life outfits, bringing glamour, humor, and sheer artistry.

·         Families and allies – Parents proudly waving rainbow flags in support of their LGBTQ+ kids, friends marching arm-in-arm, showing their solidarity.

·         Activists and community groups – Organizations carrying banners, chanting for equality, and reminding everyone of the movement’s roots.

·         Queer youth – Overflowing with excitement, wrapped in pride flags, dancing to the music, and celebrating their identities.

·         Elders and history makers – Pioneers of LGBTQ+ rights, often wearing shirts with messages like "Stonewall Survivor," reminding everyone of the struggles that paved the way.

·         Local businesses – From LGBTQ-owned coffee shops to corporate sponsors, showing their commitment to inclusivity.

·         Musicians and dancers – Bringing the heartbeat of the parade to life with live performances, energetic beats, and choreographed routines.

·         Fantasy and cosplay enthusiasts – Dressed as everything from mermaids to superheroes, reveling in the creativity and freedom of expression.

·         Pet lovers – Yes, even pets get dressed up! You might see dogs in rainbow tutus, cats in tiny Pride hats, or even the occasional Pride-themed reptile.

Those who attend PRIDE events -- especially the parades -- find the energy contagious. Maybe this year will be your first! If anyone asks you, “Why are you here?” You can say that a lesbian friend (me) invited you!

Happy PRIDE